"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it "patriarchally oppressive" for a man to demand that his wife not sleep around?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The ultimate form of feminism. This is why you stay away from feminists. It doesn't matter what men want or deserve, it's all about what women are owed by society. I've lost friends and family to the feminism debate. I refuse to back down to broken, horse **** ideologies like religion or feminism. I'd rather be friendless and jobless. That'll probably happen at this rate, haha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You guys are looking at these things the wrong way.

FIRST DATE:

You: Hey, I read this article that some girl thinks it's patriachically oppressive to demand your wife not sleep around, what do you think about that?

Her: Well, I can see her point of view (RUN AWAY!)

Her: That's is utter bullshyte! Cheezuz some women are CRAZY (maybe NOT run)
 

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Last I heard, the traditional marital vows say in so many words that one another is dedicated to just their spouse. The two become one, as written in the Bible.

Unless you both share an understanding between each other prior to marriage that you agree to an open marriage, cheating is a breach of contract. Simple as that.

First time I date a gal and she mentions Patriarchally Oppressed or any other Feminist BS, It's done.
 

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why not just ask her such things before wasting time and money on a date?
 

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Then why not let the man sleep around too and just call it an "open relationship". Or is the man sleeping around patriarchy?

Edit: Actually, the guy in this just has a cuckoldry fetish and is using the whole "feminism" as an excuse. I knew a man like this, I fvcked his wife and he was alright with it and in fact encouraged it. I had no issues banging his woman, but felt that that guy was out of his mind. Oh well...
 

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Last I heard, the traditional marital vows say in so many words that one another is dedicated to just their spouse. The two become one, as written in the Bible.

Unless you both share an understanding between each other prior to marriage that you agree to an open marriage, cheating is a breach of contract. Simple as that.

First time I date a gal and she mentions Patriarchally Oppressed or any other Feminist BS, It's done.
First thing we need to do is quit shaming the word sexist. My views would be considered sexist by the very definition of the word. The facts are, there are fundamental leanings of each sex that is considered fact. Liberals like to shame facts. So thus, they shame me. Just the way it is. However, us red-pillers do not need to perpetuate the myth.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First thing we need to do is quit shaming the word sexist. My views would be considered sexist by the very definition of the word. The facts are, there are fundamental leanings of each sex that is considered fact. Liberals like to shame facts. So thus, they shame me. Just the way it is. However, us red-pillers do not need to perpetuate the myth.
Gotta love the people who use the word sexist for even the slightest bias against women.

What? You think men are better soldiers than women?! You're sexist!

And? News flash, everyone is sexist to some degree. It's called living in reality.
 

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Sexist my Azz!

It's called self preservation.
I refuse to put up with their bs. It's on my terms, I've paid my dues.
It is what it fvcking is. I call it protection through experience, with Common Sense.
Now I know that common sense is not politically correct these days.
I don't care.
 

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I used to message feminists on dating sites just to get their blood boiling to get a good laugh out of it...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That text is ridiculous. Do you think she would be okay with him banging other women? Absolutely not.
 
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