"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is it "patriarchally oppressive" for a man to demand that his wife not sleep around?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The ultimate form of feminism. This is why you stay away from feminists. It doesn't matter what men want or deserve, it's all about what women are owed by society. I've lost friends and family to the feminism debate. I refuse to back down to broken, horse **** ideologies like religion or feminism. I'd rather be friendless and jobless. That'll probably happen at this rate, haha.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You guys are looking at these things the wrong way.

FIRST DATE:

You: Hey, I read this article that some girl thinks it's patriachically oppressive to demand your wife not sleep around, what do you think about that?

Her: Well, I can see her point of view (RUN AWAY!)

Her: That's is utter bullshyte! Cheezuz some women are CRAZY (maybe NOT run)
 

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Last I heard, the traditional marital vows say in so many words that one another is dedicated to just their spouse. The two become one, as written in the Bible.

Unless you both share an understanding between each other prior to marriage that you agree to an open marriage, cheating is a breach of contract. Simple as that.

First time I date a gal and she mentions Patriarchally Oppressed or any other Feminist BS, It's done.
 

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why not just ask her such things before wasting time and money on a date?
 

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Then why not let the man sleep around too and just call it an "open relationship". Or is the man sleeping around patriarchy?

Edit: Actually, the guy in this just has a cuckoldry fetish and is using the whole "feminism" as an excuse. I knew a man like this, I fvcked his wife and he was alright with it and in fact encouraged it. I had no issues banging his woman, but felt that that guy was out of his mind. Oh well...
 

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Last I heard, the traditional marital vows say in so many words that one another is dedicated to just their spouse. The two become one, as written in the Bible.

Unless you both share an understanding between each other prior to marriage that you agree to an open marriage, cheating is a breach of contract. Simple as that.

First time I date a gal and she mentions Patriarchally Oppressed or any other Feminist BS, It's done.
First thing we need to do is quit shaming the word sexist. My views would be considered sexist by the very definition of the word. The facts are, there are fundamental leanings of each sex that is considered fact. Liberals like to shame facts. So thus, they shame me. Just the way it is. However, us red-pillers do not need to perpetuate the myth.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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First thing we need to do is quit shaming the word sexist. My views would be considered sexist by the very definition of the word. The facts are, there are fundamental leanings of each sex that is considered fact. Liberals like to shame facts. So thus, they shame me. Just the way it is. However, us red-pillers do not need to perpetuate the myth.
Gotta love the people who use the word sexist for even the slightest bias against women.

What? You think men are better soldiers than women?! You're sexist!

And? News flash, everyone is sexist to some degree. It's called living in reality.
 

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Sexist my Azz!

It's called self preservation.
I refuse to put up with their bs. It's on my terms, I've paid my dues.
It is what it fvcking is. I call it protection through experience, with Common Sense.
Now I know that common sense is not politically correct these days.
I don't care.
 

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I used to message feminists on dating sites just to get their blood boiling to get a good laugh out of it...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That text is ridiculous. Do you think she would be okay with him banging other women? Absolutely not.
 
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