"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it "patriarchally oppressive" for a man to demand that his wife not sleep around?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The ultimate form of feminism. This is why you stay away from feminists. It doesn't matter what men want or deserve, it's all about what women are owed by society. I've lost friends and family to the feminism debate. I refuse to back down to broken, horse **** ideologies like religion or feminism. I'd rather be friendless and jobless. That'll probably happen at this rate, haha.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You guys are looking at these things the wrong way.

FIRST DATE:

You: Hey, I read this article that some girl thinks it's patriachically oppressive to demand your wife not sleep around, what do you think about that?

Her: Well, I can see her point of view (RUN AWAY!)

Her: That's is utter bullshyte! Cheezuz some women are CRAZY (maybe NOT run)
 

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Last I heard, the traditional marital vows say in so many words that one another is dedicated to just their spouse. The two become one, as written in the Bible.

Unless you both share an understanding between each other prior to marriage that you agree to an open marriage, cheating is a breach of contract. Simple as that.

First time I date a gal and she mentions Patriarchally Oppressed or any other Feminist BS, It's done.
 

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why not just ask her such things before wasting time and money on a date?
 

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Then why not let the man sleep around too and just call it an "open relationship". Or is the man sleeping around patriarchy?

Edit: Actually, the guy in this just has a cuckoldry fetish and is using the whole "feminism" as an excuse. I knew a man like this, I fvcked his wife and he was alright with it and in fact encouraged it. I had no issues banging his woman, but felt that that guy was out of his mind. Oh well...
 

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Last I heard, the traditional marital vows say in so many words that one another is dedicated to just their spouse. The two become one, as written in the Bible.

Unless you both share an understanding between each other prior to marriage that you agree to an open marriage, cheating is a breach of contract. Simple as that.

First time I date a gal and she mentions Patriarchally Oppressed or any other Feminist BS, It's done.
First thing we need to do is quit shaming the word sexist. My views would be considered sexist by the very definition of the word. The facts are, there are fundamental leanings of each sex that is considered fact. Liberals like to shame facts. So thus, they shame me. Just the way it is. However, us red-pillers do not need to perpetuate the myth.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First thing we need to do is quit shaming the word sexist. My views would be considered sexist by the very definition of the word. The facts are, there are fundamental leanings of each sex that is considered fact. Liberals like to shame facts. So thus, they shame me. Just the way it is. However, us red-pillers do not need to perpetuate the myth.
Gotta love the people who use the word sexist for even the slightest bias against women.

What? You think men are better soldiers than women?! You're sexist!

And? News flash, everyone is sexist to some degree. It's called living in reality.
 

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Sexist my Azz!

It's called self preservation.
I refuse to put up with their bs. It's on my terms, I've paid my dues.
It is what it fvcking is. I call it protection through experience, with Common Sense.
Now I know that common sense is not politically correct these days.
I don't care.
 

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I used to message feminists on dating sites just to get their blood boiling to get a good laugh out of it...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That text is ridiculous. Do you think she would be okay with him banging other women? Absolutely not.
 
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