The Pedantical
Don Juan
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Whaddaya think? :box:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is it okay to discuss politics while having sex?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
I think you should probably be focusing on other things during sex.
No chick wants to hear your opinion about the Monroe Doctrine while you're tagging her.
No chick wants to hear your opinion about the Monroe Doctrine while you're tagging her.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Even better start talking about Roe vs Wade
LMFAO!Maxtro said:
I'm gonna have to agree in certain instances. But generally its prob a bad idea. I had a girl at one point that politics got things really heated up for us with great benefits later on, but also had times where things got too out of control.
I'm a political science major and I can see something like that happening with another poly sci major.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
it is only ok, if she has fallen asleep already.
then it really doesn't matter what you say, since she is to blame for falling asleep.
then it really doesn't matter what you say, since she is to blame for falling asleep.