The Pedantical
Don Juan
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Whaddaya think? :box:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Is it okay to discuss politics while having sex?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
I think you should probably be focusing on other things during sex.
No chick wants to hear your opinion about the Monroe Doctrine while you're tagging her.
No chick wants to hear your opinion about the Monroe Doctrine while you're tagging her.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Even better start talking about Roe vs Wade
LMFAO!Maxtro said:
I'm gonna have to agree in certain instances. But generally its prob a bad idea. I had a girl at one point that politics got things really heated up for us with great benefits later on, but also had times where things got too out of control.
I'm a political science major and I can see something like that happening with another poly sci major.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
it is only ok, if she has fallen asleep already.
then it really doesn't matter what you say, since she is to blame for falling asleep.
then it really doesn't matter what you say, since she is to blame for falling asleep.