"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it okay to discuss politics while having sex?

The Pedantical

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Whaddaya think? :box:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Serialized3

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I think you should probably be focusing on other things during sex.

No chick wants to hear your opinion about the Monroe Doctrine while you're tagging her.
 

mpimpin

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Maxtro said:
Even better start talking about Roe vs Wade
LMFAO!

I'm gonna have to agree in certain instances. But generally its prob a bad idea. I had a girl at one point that politics got things really heated up for us with great benefits later on, but also had times where things got too out of control.

I'm a political science major and I can see something like that happening with another poly sci major.
 

Dilberto

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Dude....she will dry up down there, like a dusty, cobweb-filled abandoned house. Don't even go there. Keep it to yourself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it is only ok, if she has fallen asleep already.
then it really doesn't matter what you say, since she is to blame for falling asleep.
 
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