BackInTheGame78
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You fail to realize that women base things on past experiences they have had with guys and from past experiences, they have found that guys that act like you by "falling in love" so quickly and who make this woman the center of their universe are likely to be future psychos or stalkers they have to deal with.Yes hormonal profile makes sense lol. I see instinctual, interesting.
Yes before that, I was very stoic and unimpressed/more chill. 100% after the last date I got too emotional.
There were definitely things "bubbling" but the positives outweighed the negatives (at that point in the dates and interaction)... but obviously she connected more dots after date 5 and I got too needy trying to meet up couple times in same week.The main thing being I probably went from appearing to like her 80%.. to liking her 120%.
I still want to end things or get closure on it though or her perspective ... for my motivation and because "Game or not" or "saving face" or not I find it rude to try to ghost me like this after all time we spent together. That's just my opinion!
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she had told me before on date 2 or 3 how comfortable she felt around me (what you're saying about emotions and being a rock, "right the ship"). So maybe I can get it back to that? Possible!
I know I've read it's a case of "what have you done for me lately", but I did previously indicate those traits you mentioned to her ^^.. but obviously most recently I did not lol.
Just keeping it real with you. You may feel this is "normal" behavior, but rest assured it is not and is cringe behavior to most women once it passes a certain threshold.
This triggers them to literally run as if they are scared for their safety. The worst thing you can do while dating is trigger this feeling or thought in a woman because there is never any coming back from it. They would rather not date anyone for 5 years than date that guy.
This woman owes you absolutely nothing. The fact you think she does makes me think you are very inexperienced in relationships and how things typically work.
Move on. Date other women. Your obsession over this woman after 5 dates is telling me she was right to ghost you. Right now her friends are all telling her how she dodged a bullet with you and she is agreeing with them.
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