Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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Idk I can always work on my posture and confidence, but I should probably work on filtering out girls to avoid wasting time on these dates. I usually schedule a date pretty early, so convos with these women could've ended up as ghosts rather than dates. I am well aware that my personality isn't going to click with most women while my friend can get less first dates than me but he will click because the types of chicks he connects with are most common. At the end of the day, my exes and plates tend to be quite similar now that I think of it (Cancers, come from a strong family, in the closet republicans, drinking, sports, and partying aren't their main hobbies, religious, and etc lol). And my friends tend to date the same type of women too, like the one guy only dates female versions of bros lol.OP, you need to start analyzing what you are doing on these dates. If it happens once or twice then there is a chance some random bad luck is involved. When it keeps happening with many different women then you need to start looking at yourself as the problem because you are the only constant in the equation.
Start analyzing these dates and thinking about what is happening in them. I was having an issue when I first started going on dates again after an LTR where I was being overly sexual with women on first dates and had a long string of no 2nd dates. Probably 10 or 11 over a month period. I started to analyze what was happening and I started to relax with the sexual stuff a little and just sprinkle it in when opportunity arose and as soon as I started doing that I had 4 or 5 women wanting to see me again and I banged all of them eventually.
You have to be able to learn from what is happening in date and then try different approaches and tactics until you find what works for you. Then keep doing it. It can be frustrating but you will learn a lot about yourself. Now I am at the point where I am pretty successful on most first dates and the women want to see me again...I am probably hitting around 70-80% of good first dates now...confidence breeds confidence amd it becomes like a snowball rolling downhill. I just KNOW this woman is gonna want to see me again because I feel awesome and clearly I project that.