"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it normal for girls who are just friends to ask these questions?

MikeViper

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Here's the situation, me and this other are in class, talking stuff about all the hoes we get, and then this one girl, who's my friend, ask me, "Have you ever kissed a girl before?", I lie and say yes. Then she asked me, if I've ever f*cked a girl before, and I'm starting to think that she's starting to get a little bit too curious, but still I replied to that with, "Yes, I'm a man enough to admit I've never f*cked a girl before". Then she asks, if I've gotten head before, I tell her that I can't tell her that, and she says, "Why not? I thought we were friends", wow, you talk to your guy friends about that stuff? Wow. So I basically want to know whether it's normal for a girl that you're not interested in to do this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Silverback82

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maybe she's interested or maybe she assumes you have no success with women and wants to know for sure out of curiosity
 

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Yes,nosy girls ask these types of questions. Just respond with "its none of your business" and smile.
 

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You're screwed if you tell her the truth and you're screwed if you lie. "Its none of your business" is your best answer, especially if you have no interest in her. She'll merely ask so she can later gossip your answers with others. REMEMBER, GIRLS GOSSIP A LOT!!!
 

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Just ask her why she's interested in knowing & look her up & down...grin mischievously. :yes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you should of turned the question around on her.

have you kissed a guy?
have you been eaten out?
have you been ****ed before?

and then gauge her reaction
 

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Yeah gauge her reactions, and its odd because usually girls who you are actually friends with will not ask those questions, because they usually do not want to know.

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I say take her out back by the dumspter and **** her. Or get her to give you head... whatever.
 

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Yeah If you dont have any ( sexual interest ) in her then Say that you dont kiss and tell. Or whatever... Its pretty noisy and I would be weary of the

I would say I dont kiss and tell saying its none of her business might come off as offensive... though all in a matter of tone of voice and if you care or not if your offensive to your friend *shrugs*

Chicks dont really ask me those questions
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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