"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it normal for girls who are just friends to ask these questions?

MikeViper

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Here's the situation, me and this other are in class, talking stuff about all the hoes we get, and then this one girl, who's my friend, ask me, "Have you ever kissed a girl before?", I lie and say yes. Then she asked me, if I've ever f*cked a girl before, and I'm starting to think that she's starting to get a little bit too curious, but still I replied to that with, "Yes, I'm a man enough to admit I've never f*cked a girl before". Then she asks, if I've gotten head before, I tell her that I can't tell her that, and she says, "Why not? I thought we were friends", wow, you talk to your guy friends about that stuff? Wow. So I basically want to know whether it's normal for a girl that you're not interested in to do this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Silverback82

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maybe she's interested or maybe she assumes you have no success with women and wants to know for sure out of curiosity
 

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Yes,nosy girls ask these types of questions. Just respond with "its none of your business" and smile.
 

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You're screwed if you tell her the truth and you're screwed if you lie. "Its none of your business" is your best answer, especially if you have no interest in her. She'll merely ask so she can later gossip your answers with others. REMEMBER, GIRLS GOSSIP A LOT!!!
 

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Just ask her why she's interested in knowing & look her up & down...grin mischievously. :yes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you should of turned the question around on her.

have you kissed a guy?
have you been eaten out?
have you been ****ed before?

and then gauge her reaction
 

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Yeah gauge her reactions, and its odd because usually girls who you are actually friends with will not ask those questions, because they usually do not want to know.

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I say take her out back by the dumspter and **** her. Or get her to give you head... whatever.
 

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Yeah If you dont have any ( sexual interest ) in her then Say that you dont kiss and tell. Or whatever... Its pretty noisy and I would be weary of the

I would say I dont kiss and tell saying its none of her business might come off as offensive... though all in a matter of tone of voice and if you care or not if your offensive to your friend *shrugs*

Chicks dont really ask me those questions
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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