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Is it normal for girls who are just friends to ask these questions?

MikeViper

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Here's the situation, me and this other are in class, talking stuff about all the hoes we get, and then this one girl, who's my friend, ask me, "Have you ever kissed a girl before?", I lie and say yes. Then she asked me, if I've ever f*cked a girl before, and I'm starting to think that she's starting to get a little bit too curious, but still I replied to that with, "Yes, I'm a man enough to admit I've never f*cked a girl before". Then she asks, if I've gotten head before, I tell her that I can't tell her that, and she says, "Why not? I thought we were friends", wow, you talk to your guy friends about that stuff? Wow. So I basically want to know whether it's normal for a girl that you're not interested in to do this.
 

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Silverback82

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maybe she's interested or maybe she assumes you have no success with women and wants to know for sure out of curiosity
 

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Yes,nosy girls ask these types of questions. Just respond with "its none of your business" and smile.
 

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You're screwed if you tell her the truth and you're screwed if you lie. "Its none of your business" is your best answer, especially if you have no interest in her. She'll merely ask so she can later gossip your answers with others. REMEMBER, GIRLS GOSSIP A LOT!!!
 

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Just ask her why she's interested in knowing & look her up & down...grin mischievously. :yes:
 

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you should of turned the question around on her.

have you kissed a guy?
have you been eaten out?
have you been ****ed before?

and then gauge her reaction
 

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Yeah gauge her reactions, and its odd because usually girls who you are actually friends with will not ask those questions, because they usually do not want to know.

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I say take her out back by the dumspter and **** her. Or get her to give you head... whatever.
 

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Yeah If you dont have any ( sexual interest ) in her then Say that you dont kiss and tell. Or whatever... Its pretty noisy and I would be weary of the

I would say I dont kiss and tell saying its none of her business might come off as offensive... though all in a matter of tone of voice and if you care or not if your offensive to your friend *shrugs*

Chicks dont really ask me those questions
 

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