Here's the situation, me and this other are in class, talking stuff about all the hoes we get, and then this one girl, who's my friend, ask me, "Have you ever kissed a girl before?", I lie and say yes. Then she asked me, if I've ever f*cked a girl before, and I'm starting to think that she's starting to get a little bit too curious, but still I replied to that with, "Yes, I'm a man enough to admit I've never f*cked a girl before". Then she asks, if I've gotten head before, I tell her that I can't tell her that, and she says, "Why not? I thought we were friends", wow, you talk to your guy friends about that stuff? Wow. So I basically want to know whether it's normal for a girl that you're not interested in to do this.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is it normal for girls who are just friends to ask these questions?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Silverback82
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maybe she's interested or maybe she assumes you have no success with women and wants to know for sure out of curiosity
You're screwed if you tell her the truth and you're screwed if you lie. "Its none of your business" is your best answer, especially if you have no interest in her. She'll merely ask so she can later gossip your answers with others. REMEMBER, GIRLS GOSSIP A LOT!!!
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Just ask her why she's interested in knowing & look her up & down...grin mischievously. :yes:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"vazeh
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you should of turned the question around on her.
have you kissed a guy?
have you been eaten out?
have you been ****ed before?
and then gauge her reaction
have you kissed a guy?
have you been eaten out?
have you been ****ed before?
and then gauge her reaction
brucevangeorge
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I say take her out back by the dumspter and **** her. Or get her to give you head... whatever.
DonMEgaHoss
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Yeah If you dont have any ( sexual interest ) in her then Say that you dont kiss and tell. Or whatever... Its pretty noisy and I would be weary of the
I would say I dont kiss and tell saying its none of her business might come off as offensive... though all in a matter of tone of voice and if you care or not if your offensive to your friend *shrugs*
Chicks dont really ask me those questions
I would say I dont kiss and tell saying its none of her business might come off as offensive... though all in a matter of tone of voice and if you care or not if your offensive to your friend *shrugs*
Chicks dont really ask me those questions
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.