Here's the situation, me and this other are in class, talking stuff about all the hoes we get, and then this one girl, who's my friend, ask me, "Have you ever kissed a girl before?", I lie and say yes. Then she asked me, if I've ever f*cked a girl before, and I'm starting to think that she's starting to get a little bit too curious, but still I replied to that with, "Yes, I'm a man enough to admit I've never f*cked a girl before". Then she asks, if I've gotten head before, I tell her that I can't tell her that, and she says, "Why not? I thought we were friends", wow, you talk to your guy friends about that stuff? Wow. So I basically want to know whether it's normal for a girl that you're not interested in to do this.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is it normal for girls who are just friends to ask these questions?
- Thread starter MikeViper
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Silverback82
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maybe she's interested or maybe she assumes you have no success with women and wants to know for sure out of curiosity
You're screwed if you tell her the truth and you're screwed if you lie. "Its none of your business" is your best answer, especially if you have no interest in her. She'll merely ask so she can later gossip your answers with others. REMEMBER, GIRLS GOSSIP A LOT!!!
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Just ask her why she's interested in knowing & look her up & down...grin mischievously. :yes:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"vazeh
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you should of turned the question around on her.
have you kissed a guy?
have you been eaten out?
have you been ****ed before?
and then gauge her reaction
have you kissed a guy?
have you been eaten out?
have you been ****ed before?
and then gauge her reaction
brucevangeorge
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I say take her out back by the dumspter and **** her. Or get her to give you head... whatever.
DonMEgaHoss
Don Juan
Yeah If you dont have any ( sexual interest ) in her then Say that you dont kiss and tell. Or whatever... Its pretty noisy and I would be weary of the
I would say I dont kiss and tell saying its none of her business might come off as offensive... though all in a matter of tone of voice and if you care or not if your offensive to your friend *shrugs*
Chicks dont really ask me those questions
I would say I dont kiss and tell saying its none of her business might come off as offensive... though all in a matter of tone of voice and if you care or not if your offensive to your friend *shrugs*
Chicks dont really ask me those questions
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.