"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is it how you dress that make a woman check you out?
- Thread starter knight56
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Royal Elite
Banned
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Maybe I just mis-read the post here Royal, but are you saying not to dress that way in a bar? Or are you saying dress that way but you better be ready to hit on the girl?Originally posted by Royal Elite
In a club if you are dressed very nice, hair done, decent jewelry, women will more then likely perceive you as the player type, and therefore will expect that type of behavior. Therefore dont expect a lot of approaches, since they will be expecting it from you. Dont look confident, and act cowardly.
Just a little confused with your wording.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Royal Elite
Banned
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Is this a joke post?Originally posted by Royal Elite
Dont look confident, and act cowardly.
catch
Senior Don Juan
you must dress in context with your self... you never see a nerdy geek dressed in a bomber jacket...do you...
your self image should appeal to yourself, and not who you want it to appeal to...
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Thats why I dont like wearing really expensive clothes anymore, Im keeping it basic now...Cause when the girls see you, they think you have alot of money, and as for myself, I was getting 50% discounts from people in the store...So when they find out you dont have that much money, they prolly wont want to mess with you anymore cause its like you lied to them...Plus all those clothes dont mean sh1t if you dont have any game...I know dudes who are my age and drive beemers and wear the best clothes and they still dont get anything...Originally posted by Royal Elite
Everything you do sends a message-the way you talk, what you say, how you move, and your appearance. If you see a dude in black leather and a mohawk you think punk rocker, you see a girl with little to no clothes you think ez. So the way you dress does send a message. For all you smooth dressers out there relize this point. In a club if you are dressed very nice, hair done, decent jewelry, women will more then likely perceive you as the player type, and therefore will expect that type of behavior. Therefore dont expect a lot of approaches, since they will be expecting it from you. Dont look confident, and act cowardly.
Royal Elite
Banned
No this isnt a joke post. I see this time and time again at the club. Guys dressed to impress from head to toe, looking like they the star of the show, but when its time to ride they run and hide, and dont act like a man, with little pride.Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
Is this a joke post?
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Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
I understand that. But act cowardly and don't show any confidence? Doesn't that kind of go against, uhh, everything?Originally posted by Royal Elite
No this isnt a joke post. I see this time and time again at the club. Guys dressed to impress from head to toe, looking like they the star of the show, but when its time to ride they run and hide, and dont act like a man, with little pride.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Check this out, I know from personal experience...If you dress better than girls and have confident body language, girls will be to shook to even talk to you sometimes, and some of them might hate you cause you are so good...So if you want girls to be more comfortable and to go at you, you have to look less confident so the girls wont be scared...Then when they are hooked you use your game...Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
I understand that. But act cowardly and don't show any confidence? Doesn't that kind of go against, uhh, everything?
Royal Elite
Banned
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Yeah, but it depends on the girl...If shes confident, they will go at you or make it obvious...If they have low self esteem, theyll get scared or you might not even know they like you, some of them will hate you...The nicer dressed girls will prolly like you more, but the others you prolly wont really be able to tell...This has nothing to do with looks either, cause I see average and busted girls with the best clothes on too...And there are really good looking girls who arnt really into that sh1t either...Originally posted by knight56
So you saying girls wont talk to us because there are scare too?
Royal Elite
Banned
i find that very true.(theres also a possility of them shutting you down no matter how attractive or confident you are, some women cant just cope with all that.Originally posted by Royal Elite
I'm saying a lot of guys sit back and wait for approaches, but when you have that look of confidence not too many women will approach you. When they see a very nice looking guy dressed really well, they assume you have confidence. In general a woman will barely approach a guy, but if they think you are very high status wise, they are less likely. Im a very attractive guy, and girls I would approach would later tell me, they were always too scared to do anything other then sneak a peak here and there. Im saying dress nicely, but you better be prepared to play the role of the Man, and not wait on her.
Royal Elite
Banned
usually you know when a girl is checking you out. If you keep catching her looking at you, she is checking you out. If she keeps smiling, she is checking you out. the problem is most guys go after the girl that is paying them no mind, and pay no mind to the girl that is giving off all the signals. Learn to be observant.Originally posted by knight56
what kind of signals would girls give us to approach them?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.