"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it corny to use French to deliver a compliment to a girl?

revivedjcy

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Just wondering.

Is it wierd or corny or AFC to use French to deliver a compliment to a girl? (like saying u got beautiful eyes in french) I did it once, and I got some positive responses, though at the time we were all a bit under the influence. (assuming that one's mastery of French is good)

Any thoughts anybody?
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i am me

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I wouldn't do it...I guess it depends on your personality and the girl who you say it to.
 

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i think you could do it in a joking way. personally if i knew another language i'd prolly neg hit her in the other language. And if she didnt understand make it obvious im teasing her and she dosnt know what i said. I would just say something like "your feet are like monkey feet" or something.
 

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Complimenting in ANY languange is a bad idea IMO.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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johnny_chase

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unless you come from where i come from, and the girls speak both languages
 

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Doesn't matter... if you deliver the compliment in a confident matter and not in a way that you're not asking for approval, then it really shouldn't matter what language you compliment her in. If you're complimenting her in french to try to impress her, you're gonna come off as fake. You don't do things to impress her... you do them because you felt like it. And if she responds weird, just shrug your shoulders and continue on. It's not a big deal, right?

If you do think it's corny, though, then I wouldn't do it, because since you have doubts about it being corny, when you try to pull it off, it's gonna come out corny. A French dude who speaks perfect French will compliment in French... and it will come out natural because to him, it is natural. Get what I'm saying?
 

So Many Ways

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If it works, do it. Who cares if it's corny or not. Also, I have my doubts about this whole concept that delivering a compliment will somehow torpedo any seduction attempt. I think that's blown way out of proportion.
 
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