"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is it corny to use French to deliver a compliment to a girl?

revivedjcy

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Just wondering.

Is it wierd or corny or AFC to use French to deliver a compliment to a girl? (like saying u got beautiful eyes in french) I did it once, and I got some positive responses, though at the time we were all a bit under the influence. (assuming that one's mastery of French is good)

Any thoughts anybody?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i am me

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I wouldn't do it...I guess it depends on your personality and the girl who you say it to.
 

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i think you could do it in a joking way. personally if i knew another language i'd prolly neg hit her in the other language. And if she didnt understand make it obvious im teasing her and she dosnt know what i said. I would just say something like "your feet are like monkey feet" or something.
 

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Complimenting in ANY languange is a bad idea IMO.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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johnny_chase

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unless you come from where i come from, and the girls speak both languages
 

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Doesn't matter... if you deliver the compliment in a confident matter and not in a way that you're not asking for approval, then it really shouldn't matter what language you compliment her in. If you're complimenting her in french to try to impress her, you're gonna come off as fake. You don't do things to impress her... you do them because you felt like it. And if she responds weird, just shrug your shoulders and continue on. It's not a big deal, right?

If you do think it's corny, though, then I wouldn't do it, because since you have doubts about it being corny, when you try to pull it off, it's gonna come out corny. A French dude who speaks perfect French will compliment in French... and it will come out natural because to him, it is natural. Get what I'm saying?
 

So Many Ways

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If it works, do it. Who cares if it's corny or not. Also, I have my doubts about this whole concept that delivering a compliment will somehow torpedo any seduction attempt. I think that's blown way out of proportion.
 
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