"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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is it cheating?

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GREAT WHITE SHARK

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When in a ltr, is it cheating when you:

*place ads on the internet or look for girls on dating sites?
*flirt with chicks on bars?
*go out with your friends at night and flirt with chicks?
*visit a chick you dont know very well, but she is obviously wanting you?

*going to a orgy and having no condoms sex? heheheh j/k

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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personally, i dont think cheating is right, anyway you describe it or try to justify it. that's just not the kinda person i am.

1) internet for dates- not cheating, unless you find some, and act on them
2) flirting is fine. you can look and talk, but you cant touch.
3) see # 2
4) what kind of visit? what happend?
if it was just a social call, not cheating.

Also depends on how long this LTR is. if it's over a year, and you are doing this sh!t, it is cheating. break up w/ your LTR girl, and start living the single life and having fun again.
 
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It's only cheating if you told her previously that you'd be exclusive with her or if you've lead her to believe that.

You can still have multiple LTRs and STRs otherwise.
 
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lmao @ going to orgys and having no condom sex... now what you think... Is that cheating??? very funny...


To your girlfriend anything having to do with another female beside family is cheating(we just dont tell you)

basically the ad thing I would consider cheating because your putting yourself out there. The point of an ad is to attract single women who are basically looking for a date.

Flirting is ok to a certain extent... as long as its just flirting...

personally I wouldnt let my man go out at night with any chic...

Let turn the tables around...

Would it be ok for your girlfriend to do the things you are doing????

Are you getting mad yet at the fact that your women is out there with one of her guy friends that likes her and shes flirting with him?????

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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*dead* you spoke to soon!!!

:D :D :D :D
 
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umm nevermind I was gonna type something but I deleted it!! :D
 
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STOP DRANKING DAT SUGA WATER!! LOL
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by GREAT WHITE SHARK
When in a ltr, is it cheating when you:

*place ads on the internet or look for girls on dating sites?
*flirt with chicks on bars?
*go out with your friends at night and flirt with chicks?
*visit a chick you dont know very well, but she is obviously wanting you?

*going to a orgy and having no condoms sex? heheheh j/k

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Yes, because you're planning for an interlude or else what are you doing on that site?

If a chick's on a bar, flirting with her is de rigeur. It's not cheating as long as nothing comes of it.

Light flirting's okay, draw the line at active KINO.

Not if you don't do anything.

My question here is, if you're tempted to do all these things, why don't you break it off with your LTR, sionce you're obviously not interested any more?

-Cyrano
 
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