is it cheating?

[GREAT WHITE SHARK]

When in a ltr, is it cheating when you:

*place ads on the internet or look for girls on dating sites?
*flirt with chicks on bars?
*go out with your friends at night and flirt with chicks?
*visit a chick you dont know very well, but she is obviously wanting you?

*going to a orgy and having no condoms sex? heheheh j/k

 

[Dukester]

personally, i dont think cheating is right, anyway you describe it or try to justify it. that's just not the kinda person i am.

1) internet for dates- not cheating, unless you find some, and act on them
2) flirting is fine. you can look and talk, but you cant touch.
3) see # 2
4) what kind of visit? what happend?
if it was just a social call, not cheating.

Also depends on how long this LTR is. if it's over a year, and you are doing this sh!t, it is cheating. break up w/ your LTR girl, and start living the single life and having fun again.

 

[JT47319]

It's only cheating if you told her previously that you'd be exclusive with her or if you've lead her to believe that.

You can still have multiple LTRs and STRs otherwise.

 

[Cutiepiie]

lmao @ going to orgys and having no condom sex... now what you think... Is that cheating??? very funny...


To your girlfriend anything having to do with another female beside family is cheating(we just dont tell you)

basically the ad thing I would consider cheating because your putting yourself out there. The point of an ad is to attract single women who are basically looking for a date.

Flirting is ok to a certain extent... as long as its just flirting...

personally I wouldnt let my man go out at night with any chic...

Let turn the tables around...

Would it be ok for your girlfriend to do the things you are doing????

Are you getting mad yet at the fact that your women is out there with one of her guy friends that likes her and shes flirting with him?????

=0)

 

[Dukester]

hey cutie pie. did that PM knock something in ya head loose?
this is the best post i've seen from you yet. and i can see the "funny" element in it!
thanx

 

[Cutiepiie]

*dead* you spoke to soon!!!

 

[Dukester]

Originally posted by Cutiepiie
*dead* you spoke to soon!!!

huh????

 

[Cutiepiie]

umm nevermind I was gonna type something but I deleted it!!

 

[Dukester]

lol cutiepie- that in itself is just funny.
well, not really. i guess i'm extremely hyper- must be that whole 2 hrs sleep thing

 

[Cutiepiie]

STOP DRANKING DAT SUGA WATER!! LOL

 

[Dukester]

ya, no sleep, and drinking lots of coffee and mtn. dew

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Originally posted by GREAT WHITE SHARK
When in a ltr, is it cheating when you:

*place ads on the internet or look for girls on dating sites?
*flirt with chicks on bars?
*go out with your friends at night and flirt with chicks?
*visit a chick you dont know very well, but she is obviously wanting you?

*going to a orgy and having no condoms sex? heheheh j/k

Yes, because you're planning for an interlude or else what are you doing on that site?

If a chick's on a bar, flirting with her is de rigeur. It's not cheating as long as nothing comes of it.

Light flirting's okay, draw the line at active KINO.

Not if you don't do anything.

My question here is, if you're tempted to do all these things, why don't you break it off with your LTR, sionce you're obviously not interested any more?

-Cyrano