"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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is it C+F

inzone50

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My gf got a hair cut and i told her to send a pic(since i'm not going to see her for a couple days) and she is like not now i haven't styled it yet.

I said "I knew it, its ugly!"

Is that ****y and funny?

I make fun of my gf a lot but sometimes i don't know if i'm being CF or i sound like a prick?

or i make fun of they way she walks and say she is so blonde.

or i mock the way she eats...

or when she said i had half the mind to do this.... i said wait...you have a mind...

her reaction is she says but you still like me anyways!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I sometimes get confused that when is ****y too ****y and not funny anymore. I seemed to played a bit too ****y and jerky lately and end up hurting people.
 

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Solarium said:
I sometimes get confused that when is ****y too ****y and not funny anymore. I seemed to played a bit too ****y and jerky lately and end up hurting people.
ya i feel like that too sometimes.

...but she is my gf so.... can't be too bad
 

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Look, i can be VERY C+F with my gf. But i exactly know where the line is.
I don't cross it, but i push it.
 

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Infraction said:
Look, i can be VERY C+F with my gf. But i exactly know where the line is.
I don't cross it, but i push it.
when is crossing the line?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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just so suave

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you know when youve crossed the line when she says your an a$$hole :D
 

just so suave

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but seriously :p try and make C+f more funny than ****y, but it must be ****y still ;)
 

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THE PROBLEM WITH C & F-is it does little to gain rapport (PRENOUNCED RA-PORE).

It's used to guage a persons interest level by initiating playful banter....IT TAKES TONS OF PRACTICE TO TRULY MASTER. THE FORMULAE has to be altered with each female as no two women are alike. Most guys have the ****y part down to a science but the humor part is where the problem lies.

Should also be used sparingly.....too much and you become iritating. Do you really need it when you reached girlfriend status......not so much.

C & F is just a prelude to the next level. Don't rely on it as your one and only tool for attraction.

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