"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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is it C+F

inzone50

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My gf got a hair cut and i told her to send a pic(since i'm not going to see her for a couple days) and she is like not now i haven't styled it yet.

I said "I knew it, its ugly!"

Is that ****y and funny?

I make fun of my gf a lot but sometimes i don't know if i'm being CF or i sound like a prick?

or i make fun of they way she walks and say she is so blonde.

or i mock the way she eats...

or when she said i had half the mind to do this.... i said wait...you have a mind...

her reaction is she says but you still like me anyways!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I sometimes get confused that when is ****y too ****y and not funny anymore. I seemed to played a bit too ****y and jerky lately and end up hurting people.
 

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Solarium said:
I sometimes get confused that when is ****y too ****y and not funny anymore. I seemed to played a bit too ****y and jerky lately and end up hurting people.
ya i feel like that too sometimes.

...but she is my gf so.... can't be too bad
 

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Look, i can be VERY C+F with my gf. But i exactly know where the line is.
I don't cross it, but i push it.
 

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Infraction said:
Look, i can be VERY C+F with my gf. But i exactly know where the line is.
I don't cross it, but i push it.
when is crossing the line?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just so suave

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you know when youve crossed the line when she says your an a$$hole :D
 

just so suave

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but seriously :p try and make C+f more funny than ****y, but it must be ****y still ;)
 

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THE PROBLEM WITH C & F-is it does little to gain rapport (PRENOUNCED RA-PORE).

It's used to guage a persons interest level by initiating playful banter....IT TAKES TONS OF PRACTICE TO TRULY MASTER. THE FORMULAE has to be altered with each female as no two women are alike. Most guys have the ****y part down to a science but the humor part is where the problem lies.

Should also be used sparingly.....too much and you become iritating. Do you really need it when you reached girlfriend status......not so much.

C & F is just a prelude to the next level. Don't rely on it as your one and only tool for attraction.

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