"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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is it C+F

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My gf got a hair cut and i told her to send a pic(since i'm not going to see her for a couple days) and she is like not now i haven't styled it yet.

I said "I knew it, its ugly!"

Is that ****y and funny?

I make fun of my gf a lot but sometimes i don't know if i'm being CF or i sound like a prick?

or i make fun of they way she walks and say she is so blonde.

or i mock the way she eats...

or when she said i had half the mind to do this.... i said wait...you have a mind...

her reaction is she says but you still like me anyways!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I sometimes get confused that when is ****y too ****y and not funny anymore. I seemed to played a bit too ****y and jerky lately and end up hurting people.
 

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Solarium said:
I sometimes get confused that when is ****y too ****y and not funny anymore. I seemed to played a bit too ****y and jerky lately and end up hurting people.
ya i feel like that too sometimes.

...but she is my gf so.... can't be too bad
 

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Look, i can be VERY C+F with my gf. But i exactly know where the line is.
I don't cross it, but i push it.
 

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Infraction said:
Look, i can be VERY C+F with my gf. But i exactly know where the line is.
I don't cross it, but i push it.
when is crossing the line?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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just so suave

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you know when youve crossed the line when she says your an a$$hole :D
 

just so suave

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but seriously :p try and make C+f more funny than ****y, but it must be ****y still ;)
 

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THE PROBLEM WITH C & F-is it does little to gain rapport (PRENOUNCED RA-PORE).

It's used to guage a persons interest level by initiating playful banter....IT TAKES TONS OF PRACTICE TO TRULY MASTER. THE FORMULAE has to be altered with each female as no two women are alike. Most guys have the ****y part down to a science but the humor part is where the problem lies.

Should also be used sparingly.....too much and you become iritating. Do you really need it when you reached girlfriend status......not so much.

C & F is just a prelude to the next level. Don't rely on it as your one and only tool for attraction.

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