Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FortunateSon

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To stand by a female no matter how much sh*t she gives you or does there come a time where you have to say enough is enough and no matter how much it hurts or how hard it is, move on?

I have a female friend and we used to be close, but recently we've argued a lot and things don't seem the same between us, what should I do? She says I'm her best friend, but treats me like anything but a best friend, what should I do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FortunateSon

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She is not my girlfriend, she is a very close friend or was a very close friend. Or does the same thing apply to both?
 

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I had a girl to become my best friend at school , we would hang out, play tennis, and text a lot, like a lottt.

then we had class together, and she started testing, and acting *****y towards me, i dont really know why, but I distanced myself, and havent spoke to her since.

the other day was my bday, and she was with anotehr friend who got excited and said "happy birthday"... well my ex friend said happy birthday to me as well, but I just nod at her "thanks" and kept walking.

then she texted me on facebook, but still, i dont want that in my life, so yea friendship is over.

so what you should do?
i dont know, figure it out, I would, let her go for good, and if she asks why? you say exactly what you wont put up with, let her find another friend.
 

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I usually cut people off completely, when I have had enough of them. Out of sight, out of mind.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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