"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FortunateSon

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To stand by a female no matter how much sh*t she gives you or does there come a time where you have to say enough is enough and no matter how much it hurts or how hard it is, move on?

I have a female friend and we used to be close, but recently we've argued a lot and things don't seem the same between us, what should I do? She says I'm her best friend, but treats me like anything but a best friend, what should I do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FortunateSon

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She is not my girlfriend, she is a very close friend or was a very close friend. Or does the same thing apply to both?
 

pipe007

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I had a girl to become my best friend at school , we would hang out, play tennis, and text a lot, like a lottt.

then we had class together, and she started testing, and acting *****y towards me, i dont really know why, but I distanced myself, and havent spoke to her since.

the other day was my bday, and she was with anotehr friend who got excited and said "happy birthday"... well my ex friend said happy birthday to me as well, but I just nod at her "thanks" and kept walking.

then she texted me on facebook, but still, i dont want that in my life, so yea friendship is over.

so what you should do?
i dont know, figure it out, I would, let her go for good, and if she asks why? you say exactly what you wont put up with, let her find another friend.
 

FortunateSon

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I usually cut people off completely, when I have had enough of them. Out of sight, out of mind.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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