"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FortunateSon

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To stand by a female no matter how much sh*t she gives you or does there come a time where you have to say enough is enough and no matter how much it hurts or how hard it is, move on?

I have a female friend and we used to be close, but recently we've argued a lot and things don't seem the same between us, what should I do? She says I'm her best friend, but treats me like anything but a best friend, what should I do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FortunateSon

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She is not my girlfriend, she is a very close friend or was a very close friend. Or does the same thing apply to both?
 

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I had a girl to become my best friend at school , we would hang out, play tennis, and text a lot, like a lottt.

then we had class together, and she started testing, and acting *****y towards me, i dont really know why, but I distanced myself, and havent spoke to her since.

the other day was my bday, and she was with anotehr friend who got excited and said "happy birthday"... well my ex friend said happy birthday to me as well, but I just nod at her "thanks" and kept walking.

then she texted me on facebook, but still, i dont want that in my life, so yea friendship is over.

so what you should do?
i dont know, figure it out, I would, let her go for good, and if she asks why? you say exactly what you wont put up with, let her find another friend.
 

FortunateSon

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I usually cut people off completely, when I have had enough of them. Out of sight, out of mind.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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