"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FortunateSon

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To stand by a female no matter how much sh*t she gives you or does there come a time where you have to say enough is enough and no matter how much it hurts or how hard it is, move on?

I have a female friend and we used to be close, but recently we've argued a lot and things don't seem the same between us, what should I do? She says I'm her best friend, but treats me like anything but a best friend, what should I do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FortunateSon

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She is not my girlfriend, she is a very close friend or was a very close friend. Or does the same thing apply to both?
 

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I had a girl to become my best friend at school , we would hang out, play tennis, and text a lot, like a lottt.

then we had class together, and she started testing, and acting *****y towards me, i dont really know why, but I distanced myself, and havent spoke to her since.

the other day was my bday, and she was with anotehr friend who got excited and said "happy birthday"... well my ex friend said happy birthday to me as well, but I just nod at her "thanks" and kept walking.

then she texted me on facebook, but still, i dont want that in my life, so yea friendship is over.

so what you should do?
i dont know, figure it out, I would, let her go for good, and if she asks why? you say exactly what you wont put up with, let her find another friend.
 

FortunateSon

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I usually cut people off completely, when I have had enough of them. Out of sight, out of mind.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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