"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FortunateSon

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To stand by a female no matter how much sh*t she gives you or does there come a time where you have to say enough is enough and no matter how much it hurts or how hard it is, move on?

I have a female friend and we used to be close, but recently we've argued a lot and things don't seem the same between us, what should I do? She says I'm her best friend, but treats me like anything but a best friend, what should I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She is not my girlfriend, she is a very close friend or was a very close friend. Or does the same thing apply to both?
 

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I had a girl to become my best friend at school , we would hang out, play tennis, and text a lot, like a lottt.

then we had class together, and she started testing, and acting *****y towards me, i dont really know why, but I distanced myself, and havent spoke to her since.

the other day was my bday, and she was with anotehr friend who got excited and said "happy birthday"... well my ex friend said happy birthday to me as well, but I just nod at her "thanks" and kept walking.

then she texted me on facebook, but still, i dont want that in my life, so yea friendship is over.

so what you should do?
i dont know, figure it out, I would, let her go for good, and if she asks why? you say exactly what you wont put up with, let her find another friend.
 

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I usually cut people off completely, when I have had enough of them. Out of sight, out of mind.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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