“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is interest important?

MackJr

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I'm not talking about sexual interest, that's why this thread is in Anything Else. It's more of a success thread.

I'm talking about general interest. For example, why you learn to use a computer or why you learn about cars or some hobby. We do hobbies because they're interesting to us.


However, at work, the stuff one does isn't that interesting. If your job is to deliver mail, you only have to drive a route so many times before it gets boring and all the mail is the same. If your job is to program computers, after a while you'll see that C++, Java, and C# are just variations on a theme. It seems that everything gets like this.

You could even get bored of DJing if you tried to master it and hit a plateau.

So... is interest even a relevant matter to consider when doing something? If I were fully logical then I'd just take up the field that pays the absolute most money and be a lawyer or Wall Street person. It's just that all that minutiae is so bland. To what degree should emotional involvement play a role in decisions about these sort of things?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Well you do want to do something that you like right? Or is it unimportant for you what you do as long as you get good money for it?
 

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Two jobs paying the same with the same hours and relatively the same distance from home, which do you pick? Would interest matter?
 

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if the jobs were the same, interest would matter. But say that you want to take what you're doing to the next level, but the price is higher amounts of drudgery.
 

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So let me get this straight:

1) You have a hobby/interest/job
2) You want to get to the next level of success
3) But in order to do that, it is boring


If my assumption is right, then you just need to figure out whether the results of "the next level" will be worth the boredom.

Sometimes you need to experience a bit of boredom in order to recieve the rewards.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Importnt, but depends upon your options

Of course interest is important, but some people just don't have any choice in some matters.

Ya gotta do what ya gotta do. If you can make a career of something intersting and fun, all the better for you.
 
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