"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is Craigslist casual encouters legit?

MatureDJ

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I've been perusing this lately,and have been noticing ads from some quite attractive and sexually willing women. I haven't been seeing the usual fat and ugly chicks that are typical of online dating. Perhaps it's just being used as fronts for spam or escort services, etc.?

(update)

This seems like a legit ad. Of course, a guy like me, or the 39 year old virgin guy, would not have a chance with this "plus sized" woman in any case (heightism.) (BTW, does she look like she is only 19?)

http://batonrouge.craigslist.org/cas/1193754283.html
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jon3947

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how can the pic on the left not be a complete turnoff
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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edger

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Damn MatureDJ, I thought your taste in women was a lot better than that.
 

YoungSir4sho

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I would hate to think wat his thoughts of ugly girls r to him lmaooooo
 

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You have to sort through the posts.

Some ads are posted by escorts who are looking for clients. When you respond the girl will offer you a deal.

Some ads are posted by Cam & phone services using the free CL post to try and find customers.

Some ads are posted by dating services and other websites using the free CL post to lure customers.

Some ads are posted by fat women who are desperate.

Some ads are posted by older women who are desperate.

Some ads are posted by ugly women who are desperate.

Some ads are posted by Phishers.

Some ads are posted by women who want to cheat on their husbands.

I remember this being discussed before. It's pretty much a grab bag of all of the above. Very few are legit ads from good women.
 
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HardTimes

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Couldn't of said it better but I'll further expand on this list

Paradox said:
Some ads are posted by escorts who are looking for clients. When you respond the girl will offer you a deal. - 10%

Some ads are posted by Cam & phone services using the free CL post to try and find customers. - 20%

Some ads are posted by dating services and other websites using the free CL post to lure customers. - 60%

Some ads are posted by fat women who are desperate. - 3%

Some ads are posted by older women who are desperate. - 1%

Some ads are posted by ugly women who are desperate. - 1%

Some ads are posted by Phishers. - 0% - Phishers don't use CL

Some ads are posted by women who want to cheat on their husbands. 5%

legit ads from good women - the limit approaching 0%
 
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