"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is Craigslist casual encouters legit?

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I've been perusing this lately,and have been noticing ads from some quite attractive and sexually willing women. I haven't been seeing the usual fat and ugly chicks that are typical of online dating. Perhaps it's just being used as fronts for spam or escort services, etc.?

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This seems like a legit ad. Of course, a guy like me, or the 39 year old virgin guy, would not have a chance with this "plus sized" woman in any case (heightism.) (BTW, does she look like she is only 19?)

http://batonrouge.craigslist.org/cas/1193754283.html
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how can the pic on the left not be a complete turnoff
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Damn MatureDJ, I thought your taste in women was a lot better than that.
 
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I would hate to think wat his thoughts of ugly girls r to him lmaooooo
 
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You have to sort through the posts.

Some ads are posted by escorts who are looking for clients. When you respond the girl will offer you a deal.

Some ads are posted by Cam & phone services using the free CL post to try and find customers.

Some ads are posted by dating services and other websites using the free CL post to lure customers.

Some ads are posted by fat women who are desperate.

Some ads are posted by older women who are desperate.

Some ads are posted by ugly women who are desperate.

Some ads are posted by Phishers.

Some ads are posted by women who want to cheat on their husbands.

I remember this being discussed before. It's pretty much a grab bag of all of the above. Very few are legit ads from good women.
 
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Couldn't of said it better but I'll further expand on this list

Paradox said:
Some ads are posted by escorts who are looking for clients. When you respond the girl will offer you a deal. - 10%

Some ads are posted by Cam & phone services using the free CL post to try and find customers. - 20%

Some ads are posted by dating services and other websites using the free CL post to lure customers. - 60%

Some ads are posted by fat women who are desperate. - 3%

Some ads are posted by older women who are desperate. - 1%

Some ads are posted by ugly women who are desperate. - 1%

Some ads are posted by Phishers. - 0% - Phishers don't use CL

Some ads are posted by women who want to cheat on their husbands. 5%

legit ads from good women - the limit approaching 0%
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