"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is Craigslist casual encouters legit?

MatureDJ

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I've been perusing this lately,and have been noticing ads from some quite attractive and sexually willing women. I haven't been seeing the usual fat and ugly chicks that are typical of online dating. Perhaps it's just being used as fronts for spam or escort services, etc.?

(update)

This seems like a legit ad. Of course, a guy like me, or the 39 year old virgin guy, would not have a chance with this "plus sized" woman in any case (heightism.) (BTW, does she look like she is only 19?)

http://batonrouge.craigslist.org/cas/1193754283.html
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how can the pic on the left not be a complete turnoff
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Damn MatureDJ, I thought your taste in women was a lot better than that.
 

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I would hate to think wat his thoughts of ugly girls r to him lmaooooo
 

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You have to sort through the posts.

Some ads are posted by escorts who are looking for clients. When you respond the girl will offer you a deal.

Some ads are posted by Cam & phone services using the free CL post to try and find customers.

Some ads are posted by dating services and other websites using the free CL post to lure customers.

Some ads are posted by fat women who are desperate.

Some ads are posted by older women who are desperate.

Some ads are posted by ugly women who are desperate.

Some ads are posted by Phishers.

Some ads are posted by women who want to cheat on their husbands.

I remember this being discussed before. It's pretty much a grab bag of all of the above. Very few are legit ads from good women.
 
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Couldn't of said it better but I'll further expand on this list

Paradox said:
Some ads are posted by escorts who are looking for clients. When you respond the girl will offer you a deal. - 10%

Some ads are posted by Cam & phone services using the free CL post to try and find customers. - 20%

Some ads are posted by dating services and other websites using the free CL post to lure customers. - 60%

Some ads are posted by fat women who are desperate. - 3%

Some ads are posted by older women who are desperate. - 1%

Some ads are posted by ugly women who are desperate. - 1%

Some ads are posted by Phishers. - 0% - Phishers don't use CL

Some ads are posted by women who want to cheat on their husbands. 5%

legit ads from good women - the limit approaching 0%
 
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