Is it wrong to purposely attempt to ruin another man's game. There's this guy I hate, and he's going after something I wanted (and obviously still have feelings for). Is it wrong to just leave little ****blocks here and there?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is ****blocking illegal for DJs?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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yeah but ONLY for DJs.
if you ****block someone... that person will ask for you DJ license and then call the cops.
are you serious? theres no ring on the girls finger... and she's not even in a relationship with the person... do your game the best you can... just don't diss the other person (no need to if you got game)... but you can play off of them without insulting them personally.
if you ****block someone... that person will ask for you DJ license and then call the cops.
are you serious? theres no ring on the girls finger... and she's not even in a relationship with the person... do your game the best you can... just don't diss the other person (no need to if you got game)... but you can play off of them without insulting them personally.
I already lost, bro. I got denied.Michele said:are you serious? theres no ring on the girls finger... and she's not even in a relationship with the person... do your game the best you can... just don't diss the other person (no need to if you got game)... but you can play off of them without insulting them personally.
Fred Da Head
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Do unto others... and that works the opposite way, too.
I have absolutely no qualms about cblocking when some maternal copulator tries to do the same or, worse, goes after women only after they see another guy is interested.
Too bad you already lost.
I have absolutely no qualms about cblocking when some maternal copulator tries to do the same or, worse, goes after women only after they see another guy is interested.
Too bad you already lost.
Kev07
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i TRY not to cb, buti ended up doing it twice so far, i feel bad because after i cbed, the guys became my friends
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I don't see the huge deal.. I mean, if you and this other guy were competing for the same promotion at work, you'd probably not be thinking anything of it. Even though a promotion has way more impact on your life than some girl.
I mean, cbing's inevitable. Most girls worth your time and attention will probably be high enough value to attract others. That doesn't mean you just let the other guy have it. He has no more right to her than you.
That said, if you aren't getting anywhere, and you're trying to cb this dude just out of spite, then that seems a little like Aesop's fable of the dog in the manger.
I mean, cbing's inevitable. Most girls worth your time and attention will probably be high enough value to attract others. That doesn't mean you just let the other guy have it. He has no more right to her than you.
That said, if you aren't getting anywhere, and you're trying to cb this dude just out of spite, then that seems a little like Aesop's fable of the dog in the manger.
BBX
Master Don Juan
You don't need to ****block. If your game is good enough, that itself is a ****block over another guy.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
i wouldnt f*ck up shop for a dude, but really homeboy, i do what i want.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
A true DJ is a ****block to any opposition without trying.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
lol...maternal copulator...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.