"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is ****blocking illegal for DJs?

Bling

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Is it wrong to purposely attempt to ruin another man's game. There's this guy I hate, and he's going after something I wanted (and obviously still have feelings for). Is it wrong to just leave little ****blocks here and there?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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yeah but ONLY for DJs.

if you ****block someone... that person will ask for you DJ license and then call the cops.

are you serious? theres no ring on the girls finger... and she's not even in a relationship with the person... do your game the best you can... just don't diss the other person (no need to if you got game)... but you can play off of them without insulting them personally.
 

Bling

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Michele said:
are you serious? theres no ring on the girls finger... and she's not even in a relationship with the person... do your game the best you can... just don't diss the other person (no need to if you got game)... but you can play off of them without insulting them personally.
I already lost, bro. I got denied.
 

Fred Da Head

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Do unto others... and that works the opposite way, too.

I have absolutely no qualms about cblocking when some maternal copulator tries to do the same or, worse, goes after women only after they see another guy is interested.

Too bad you already lost.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EdHunter

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I don't see the huge deal.. I mean, if you and this other guy were competing for the same promotion at work, you'd probably not be thinking anything of it. Even though a promotion has way more impact on your life than some girl.

I mean, cbing's inevitable. Most girls worth your time and attention will probably be high enough value to attract others. That doesn't mean you just let the other guy have it. He has no more right to her than you.

That said, if you aren't getting anywhere, and you're trying to cb this dude just out of spite, then that seems a little like Aesop's fable of the dog in the manger.
 

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You don't need to ****block. If your game is good enough, that itself is a ****block over another guy.
 

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i wouldnt f*ck up shop for a dude, but really homeboy, i do what i want.
 

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lol...maternal copulator...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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