Is it wrong to purposely attempt to ruin another man's game. There's this guy I hate, and he's going after something I wanted (and obviously still have feelings for). Is it wrong to just leave little ****blocks here and there?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is ****blocking illegal for DJs?
- Thread starter Bling
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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yeah but ONLY for DJs.
if you ****block someone... that person will ask for you DJ license and then call the cops.
are you serious? theres no ring on the girls finger... and she's not even in a relationship with the person... do your game the best you can... just don't diss the other person (no need to if you got game)... but you can play off of them without insulting them personally.
if you ****block someone... that person will ask for you DJ license and then call the cops.
are you serious? theres no ring on the girls finger... and she's not even in a relationship with the person... do your game the best you can... just don't diss the other person (no need to if you got game)... but you can play off of them without insulting them personally.
I already lost, bro. I got denied.Michele said:are you serious? theres no ring on the girls finger... and she's not even in a relationship with the person... do your game the best you can... just don't diss the other person (no need to if you got game)... but you can play off of them without insulting them personally.
Fred Da Head
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Do unto others... and that works the opposite way, too.
I have absolutely no qualms about cblocking when some maternal copulator tries to do the same or, worse, goes after women only after they see another guy is interested.
Too bad you already lost.
I have absolutely no qualms about cblocking when some maternal copulator tries to do the same or, worse, goes after women only after they see another guy is interested.
Too bad you already lost.
Kev07
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i TRY not to cb, buti ended up doing it twice so far, i feel bad because after i cbed, the guys became my friends
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't see the huge deal.. I mean, if you and this other guy were competing for the same promotion at work, you'd probably not be thinking anything of it. Even though a promotion has way more impact on your life than some girl.
I mean, cbing's inevitable. Most girls worth your time and attention will probably be high enough value to attract others. That doesn't mean you just let the other guy have it. He has no more right to her than you.
That said, if you aren't getting anywhere, and you're trying to cb this dude just out of spite, then that seems a little like Aesop's fable of the dog in the manger.
I mean, cbing's inevitable. Most girls worth your time and attention will probably be high enough value to attract others. That doesn't mean you just let the other guy have it. He has no more right to her than you.
That said, if you aren't getting anywhere, and you're trying to cb this dude just out of spite, then that seems a little like Aesop's fable of the dog in the manger.
BBX
Master Don Juan
You don't need to ****block. If your game is good enough, that itself is a ****block over another guy.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
i wouldnt f*ck up shop for a dude, but really homeboy, i do what i want.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
A true DJ is a ****block to any opposition without trying.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
lol...maternal copulator...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.