"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is ****blocking illegal for DJs?

Bling

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Is it wrong to purposely attempt to ruin another man's game. There's this guy I hate, and he's going after something I wanted (and obviously still have feelings for). Is it wrong to just leave little ****blocks here and there?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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yeah but ONLY for DJs.

if you ****block someone... that person will ask for you DJ license and then call the cops.

are you serious? theres no ring on the girls finger... and she's not even in a relationship with the person... do your game the best you can... just don't diss the other person (no need to if you got game)... but you can play off of them without insulting them personally.
 

Bling

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Michele said:
are you serious? theres no ring on the girls finger... and she's not even in a relationship with the person... do your game the best you can... just don't diss the other person (no need to if you got game)... but you can play off of them without insulting them personally.
I already lost, bro. I got denied.
 

Fred Da Head

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Do unto others... and that works the opposite way, too.

I have absolutely no qualms about cblocking when some maternal copulator tries to do the same or, worse, goes after women only after they see another guy is interested.

Too bad you already lost.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't see the huge deal.. I mean, if you and this other guy were competing for the same promotion at work, you'd probably not be thinking anything of it. Even though a promotion has way more impact on your life than some girl.

I mean, cbing's inevitable. Most girls worth your time and attention will probably be high enough value to attract others. That doesn't mean you just let the other guy have it. He has no more right to her than you.

That said, if you aren't getting anywhere, and you're trying to cb this dude just out of spite, then that seems a little like Aesop's fable of the dog in the manger.
 

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You don't need to ****block. If your game is good enough, that itself is a ****block over another guy.
 

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i wouldnt f*ck up shop for a dude, but really homeboy, i do what i want.
 

The Shocker

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lol...maternal copulator...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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