Yes it is.
Continue ur studies, be successful, no point getting all "alpha" and being a bum who can't land a decent job, ends up in halfway houses, homeless etc. Basically a loser.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is Avoiding Conflict Considered “Beta?”
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Continue ur studies, be successful, no point getting all "alpha" and being a bum who can't land a decent job, ends up in halfway houses, homeless etc. Basically a loser.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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You’re right. I’m gonna be a Computer Science professional no matter what
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I think that how emotionally reactive popular black American culture teaches black men to be is actually kind of feminine.
I think a black guy once posted on here that black women are more masculine than black men, ot something like that.
I think a black guy once posted on here that black women are more masculine than black men, ot something like that.
Stop with this black and white stuff. It's irrelevant in the bigger scheme of life.
He's an American college young man trying to make sense at life.
Let's encourage him to be the best he can be. Give him our wisdoms and hope he does better then us all. He's the next generation to lead the world.
He's an American college young man trying to make sense at life.
Let's encourage him to be the best he can be. Give him our wisdoms and hope he does better then us all. He's the next generation to lead the world.
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Hey i dont even see color
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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