"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is Avoiding Conflict Considered “Beta?”

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Exactly. Race is irrelevant. I don’t know about you guys but college is hard af
Yes it is.

Continue ur studies, be successful, no point getting all "alpha" and being a bum who can't land a decent job, ends up in halfway houses, homeless etc. Basically a loser.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes it is.

Continue ur studies, be successful, no point getting all "alpha" and being a bum who can't land a decent job, ends up in halfway houses, homeless etc. Basically a loser.
You’re right. I’m gonna be a Computer Science professional no matter what
 

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I think that how emotionally reactive popular black American culture teaches black men to be is actually kind of feminine.

I think a black guy once posted on here that black women are more masculine than black men, ot something like that.
 

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Stop with this black and white stuff. It's irrelevant in the bigger scheme of life.

He's an American college young man trying to make sense at life.

Let's encourage him to be the best he can be. Give him our wisdoms and hope he does better then us all. He's the next generation to lead the world.
 

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Stop with this black and white stuff. It's irrelevant in the bigger scheme of life.

He's an American college young man trying to make sense at life.

Let's encourage him to be the best he can be. Give him our wisdoms and hope he does better then us all. He's the next generation to lead the world.
Hey i dont even see color
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There's only one race...the indy 500.

 
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