Andrewdiceclay
Don Juan
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I have more lays under my belt from a dinner on an online date then drinks.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is anybody here a real online dating pro and willing to help me out?
- Thread starter bigdave17
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Disagree. Sharon Stone is 59, looks better than most Italian stars.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
My first date is to get the feel, see if we can talk, weed out mercenaries and all that, your first date is to have sex.
Guess what, for some people it's not just about sex.
Andrewdiceclay
Don Juan
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I never plan for sex on the first date. I'm more a relationship type guy
I never said the first date was only about sex for me. Just that it happened with a dinner for the guys who need tips.