Andrewdiceclay
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I have more lays under my belt from a dinner on an online date then drinks.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is anybody here a real online dating pro and willing to help me out?
- Thread starter bigdave17
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Disagree. Sharon Stone is 59, looks better than most Italian stars.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
My first date is to get the feel, see if we can talk, weed out mercenaries and all that, your first date is to have sex.
Guess what, for some people it's not just about sex.
Andrewdiceclay
Don Juan
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I never plan for sex on the first date. I'm more a relationship type guy
I never said the first date was only about sex for me. Just that it happened with a dinner for the guys who need tips.