Andrewdiceclay
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I have more lays under my belt from a dinner on an online date then drinks.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Is anybody here a real online dating pro and willing to help me out?
- Thread starter bigdave17
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Disagree. Sharon Stone is 59, looks better than most Italian stars.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
My first date is to get the feel, see if we can talk, weed out mercenaries and all that, your first date is to have sex.
Guess what, for some people it's not just about sex.
Andrewdiceclay
Don Juan
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I never plan for sex on the first date. I'm more a relationship type guy
I never said the first date was only about sex for me. Just that it happened with a dinner for the guys who need tips.