Andrewdiceclay
Don Juan
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I have more lays under my belt from a dinner on an online date then drinks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Is anybody here a real online dating pro and willing to help me out?
- Thread starter bigdave17
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Disagree. Sharon Stone is 59, looks better than most Italian stars.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
My first date is to get the feel, see if we can talk, weed out mercenaries and all that, your first date is to have sex.
Guess what, for some people it's not just about sex.
Andrewdiceclay
Don Juan
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I never plan for sex on the first date. I'm more a relationship type guy
I never said the first date was only about sex for me. Just that it happened with a dinner for the guys who need tips.