"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is an fclose really worth it?

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not to sound AFC here guys, but I think I might or might not have a fclose candidate at this point.

started talking to this girl; shes physically attractive but shes got a crappy background that kind of turns me off...probation, drinking, a complete one-night stand type of girl. funny thing is, i just played my DJ game (after my break up it looks like i still got it! :D) and she later jumps the gun and says "i want to have sex with you, NOW"

To be honest, being the male that I am, id prefer to set something up with her and get a shag, but is she really worth the trouble? it's just one night of sex and life goes on; i might get bragging rights, or more confidence, but thats about it; and the last thing i need is STD's from her going around the block several times

so as DJ's what do you guys suggest
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It all comes down to how you feel about it. If you are feeling particularily horny one night, sure slap on a condom and go for it. If you aren't feeling it at all, just stay out of it.

--Mission
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just to clarify something - you can catch STDs such as herpes and crabs even if you wear a condom. If she's been around a lot, there's a high possibility she has one of these.

Personally, I wouldn't. If I'm not comfortable with a girl, I don't enjoy the sex, and when it's over, I feel it was all a waste of time. That's just my preference though, as I believe DJs don't settle for slvts.
 
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stop jerking off right now, come back in a week.
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If you can last that long :crackup:
 
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Jariel said:
Just to clarify something - you can catch STDs such as herpes and crabs even if you wear a condom. If she's been around a lot, there's a high possibility she has one of these.

Personally, I wouldn't. If I'm not comfortable with a girl, I don't enjoy the sex, and when it's over, I feel it was all a waste of time. That's just my preference though, as I believe DJs don't settle for slvts.
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Ok true enough about crabs. herpes though is a bit more hard core. With a little bad luck you can get herpes just as easy from kissing as from fvcking (unless you bang the crap out of her all night long, then yes deffo higher chance during sex).

You have to decide for yourself of course. Tbh, i think bad hygene is a major turn off, if i even suspect someone has crabs or something equally disgusting it's just not even going to progress to kissing. Not even touching that crap!!

THough not every girl who wants to have a ONS with you is a slut... If that's the case, i'd say she wants it, you have it, so give it to her!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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At 18, she likely doesn't have herpes yet unless she's sleeping with older guys. Statistically speaking at that age, high schoolers generally sleep with high schoolers who aren't as exposed to STD's.

Nail her anyways, your young dumm and full of cumm, get rid of some in her.
 
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