"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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is an fclose really worth it?

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not to sound AFC here guys, but I think I might or might not have a fclose candidate at this point.

started talking to this girl; shes physically attractive but shes got a crappy background that kind of turns me off...probation, drinking, a complete one-night stand type of girl. funny thing is, i just played my DJ game (after my break up it looks like i still got it! :D) and she later jumps the gun and says "i want to have sex with you, NOW"

To be honest, being the male that I am, id prefer to set something up with her and get a shag, but is she really worth the trouble? it's just one night of sex and life goes on; i might get bragging rights, or more confidence, but thats about it; and the last thing i need is STD's from her going around the block several times

so as DJ's what do you guys suggest
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It all comes down to how you feel about it. If you are feeling particularily horny one night, sure slap on a condom and go for it. If you aren't feeling it at all, just stay out of it.

--Mission
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just to clarify something - you can catch STDs such as herpes and crabs even if you wear a condom. If she's been around a lot, there's a high possibility she has one of these.

Personally, I wouldn't. If I'm not comfortable with a girl, I don't enjoy the sex, and when it's over, I feel it was all a waste of time. That's just my preference though, as I believe DJs don't settle for slvts.
 
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superchristx said:
stop jerking off right now, come back in a week.
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If you can last that long :crackup:
 
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Jariel said:
Just to clarify something - you can catch STDs such as herpes and crabs even if you wear a condom. If she's been around a lot, there's a high possibility she has one of these.

Personally, I wouldn't. If I'm not comfortable with a girl, I don't enjoy the sex, and when it's over, I feel it was all a waste of time. That's just my preference though, as I believe DJs don't settle for slvts.
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Ok true enough about crabs. herpes though is a bit more hard core. With a little bad luck you can get herpes just as easy from kissing as from fvcking (unless you bang the crap out of her all night long, then yes deffo higher chance during sex).

You have to decide for yourself of course. Tbh, i think bad hygene is a major turn off, if i even suspect someone has crabs or something equally disgusting it's just not even going to progress to kissing. Not even touching that crap!!

THough not every girl who wants to have a ONS with you is a slut... If that's the case, i'd say she wants it, you have it, so give it to her!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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At 18, she likely doesn't have herpes yet unless she's sleeping with older guys. Statistically speaking at that age, high schoolers generally sleep with high schoolers who aren't as exposed to STD's.

Nail her anyways, your young dumm and full of cumm, get rid of some in her.
 
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