"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is an fclose really worth it?

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not to sound AFC here guys, but I think I might or might not have a fclose candidate at this point.

started talking to this girl; shes physically attractive but shes got a crappy background that kind of turns me off...probation, drinking, a complete one-night stand type of girl. funny thing is, i just played my DJ game (after my break up it looks like i still got it! :D) and she later jumps the gun and says "i want to have sex with you, NOW"

To be honest, being the male that I am, id prefer to set something up with her and get a shag, but is she really worth the trouble? it's just one night of sex and life goes on; i might get bragging rights, or more confidence, but thats about it; and the last thing i need is STD's from her going around the block several times

so as DJ's what do you guys suggest
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It all comes down to how you feel about it. If you are feeling particularily horny one night, sure slap on a condom and go for it. If you aren't feeling it at all, just stay out of it.

--Mission
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just to clarify something - you can catch STDs such as herpes and crabs even if you wear a condom. If she's been around a lot, there's a high possibility she has one of these.

Personally, I wouldn't. If I'm not comfortable with a girl, I don't enjoy the sex, and when it's over, I feel it was all a waste of time. That's just my preference though, as I believe DJs don't settle for slvts.
 
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superchristx said:
stop jerking off right now, come back in a week.
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If you can last that long :crackup:
 
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Jariel said:
Just to clarify something - you can catch STDs such as herpes and crabs even if you wear a condom. If she's been around a lot, there's a high possibility she has one of these.

Personally, I wouldn't. If I'm not comfortable with a girl, I don't enjoy the sex, and when it's over, I feel it was all a waste of time. That's just my preference though, as I believe DJs don't settle for slvts.
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Ok true enough about crabs. herpes though is a bit more hard core. With a little bad luck you can get herpes just as easy from kissing as from fvcking (unless you bang the crap out of her all night long, then yes deffo higher chance during sex).

You have to decide for yourself of course. Tbh, i think bad hygene is a major turn off, if i even suspect someone has crabs or something equally disgusting it's just not even going to progress to kissing. Not even touching that crap!!

THough not every girl who wants to have a ONS with you is a slut... If that's the case, i'd say she wants it, you have it, so give it to her!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At 18, she likely doesn't have herpes yet unless she's sleeping with older guys. Statistically speaking at that age, high schoolers generally sleep with high schoolers who aren't as exposed to STD's.

Nail her anyways, your young dumm and full of cumm, get rid of some in her.
 
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