"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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is an fclose really worth it?

j8snx1

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not to sound AFC here guys, but I think I might or might not have a fclose candidate at this point.

started talking to this girl; shes physically attractive but shes got a crappy background that kind of turns me off...probation, drinking, a complete one-night stand type of girl. funny thing is, i just played my DJ game (after my break up it looks like i still got it! :D) and she later jumps the gun and says "i want to have sex with you, NOW"

To be honest, being the male that I am, id prefer to set something up with her and get a shag, but is she really worth the trouble? it's just one night of sex and life goes on; i might get bragging rights, or more confidence, but thats about it; and the last thing i need is STD's from her going around the block several times

so as DJ's what do you guys suggest
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mission

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It all comes down to how you feel about it. If you are feeling particularily horny one night, sure slap on a condom and go for it. If you aren't feeling it at all, just stay out of it.

--Mission
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jariel

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Just to clarify something - you can catch STDs such as herpes and crabs even if you wear a condom. If she's been around a lot, there's a high possibility she has one of these.

Personally, I wouldn't. If I'm not comfortable with a girl, I don't enjoy the sex, and when it's over, I feel it was all a waste of time. That's just my preference though, as I believe DJs don't settle for slvts.
 

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superchristx said:
stop jerking off right now, come back in a week.
If you can last that long :crackup:
 

Socialreject

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Jariel said:
Just to clarify something - you can catch STDs such as herpes and crabs even if you wear a condom. If she's been around a lot, there's a high possibility she has one of these.

Personally, I wouldn't. If I'm not comfortable with a girl, I don't enjoy the sex, and when it's over, I feel it was all a waste of time. That's just my preference though, as I believe DJs don't settle for slvts.
Ok true enough about crabs. herpes though is a bit more hard core. With a little bad luck you can get herpes just as easy from kissing as from fvcking (unless you bang the crap out of her all night long, then yes deffo higher chance during sex).

You have to decide for yourself of course. Tbh, i think bad hygene is a major turn off, if i even suspect someone has crabs or something equally disgusting it's just not even going to progress to kissing. Not even touching that crap!!

THough not every girl who wants to have a ONS with you is a slut... If that's the case, i'd say she wants it, you have it, so give it to her!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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At 18, she likely doesn't have herpes yet unless she's sleeping with older guys. Statistically speaking at that age, high schoolers generally sleep with high schoolers who aren't as exposed to STD's.

Nail her anyways, your young dumm and full of cumm, get rid of some in her.
 
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