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Is alot of our negative thinking taught??

Maxxy

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I remember when i was younger i used to be alot more positive and would easily laugh when someone said something negative. I wasn't even considered a nice guy. But as i got older i started listening to what other people was saying and it made me a bit softer. I can think of almost every negative thought(or negative way of thinking) that i ever had and it always leads back to someones opinion or someone saying something. The most perfect example is society trying to teach guys to feel guilty about their desires and that being ncie is the way to be. When i was much younger i didn't worry about such things, but as i got older i felt i had to be a nice guy after being taught that.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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For some people. For others, optimism flows like the nile.
 

SinJester

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It's taught because it is just a habit. People don't often think about this but our thoughts our habits to. It's not easy, but we can change our habits. We can change the way we think too.
 

SuavePlaya

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Yes, it's taught and programmed to you. Why do you believe what society says more than half of them are still sleeping.
 

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YES.
It is all around us.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

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Desert Fox

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lmfao was reading this and some hummer drove by with a song blaring

IT WAS DIDO LMFAO!!!!! HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA
 
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