I remember when i was younger i used to be alot more positive and would easily laugh when someone said something negative. I wasn't even considered a nice guy. But as i got older i started listening to what other people was saying and it made me a bit softer. I can think of almost every negative thought(or negative way of thinking) that i ever had and it always leads back to someones opinion or someone saying something. The most perfect example is society trying to teach guys to feel guilty about their desires and that being ncie is the way to be. When i was much younger i didn't worry about such things, but as i got older i felt i had to be a nice guy after being taught that.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Is alot of our negative thinking taught??
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