"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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is a sister n law fair game?

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So Backbreaker shares some things, and Karma comes here and makes fun... reeeeaaaaal nice, clearly you need to go back to the high school forum Karma.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HalfAddict said:
So Backbreaker shares some things, and Karma comes here and makes fun... reeeeaaaaal nice, clearly you need to go back to the high school forum Karma.

I think backbreaker takes this place a little too seriously.. lol feelings hurt? Quit posting? How about stop talking like a b!tch. He's probably going to hyphenate his name when he gets married and take his womans name.
 

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penkitten's views on this thread:
1. do not fvck your sister.
2. do not fvck your sister in law.
3. do not fvck your future sister in law.
4. it's ok to fvck your sister in law's sister if you want.
5. it's ok to fvck your brother in law's sister if you want.

someone pass the popcorn.
 

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on a similar note, my first cousin once removed is slammin hot. With
some alcohol involved I honestly could not guarantee i could hold myself
back. :yes: :eek: :nono: :D
 

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st_99 said:
on a similar note, my first cousin once removed is slammin hot. With
some alcohol involved I honestly could not guarantee i could hold myself
back. :yes: :eek: :nono: :D
how do you remove a cousin?
and are you from tennessee? if your answer is yes, i believe it is legal for you to marry your own cousin there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Enough to create fake user names to support his arguments? You're KarmaSutra, aren't you?

Yes. I am also MAcAvoy, your mom, your EX BPD that you jerk off to every night, and your ugly girlfriend.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Enough to create fake user names to support his arguments? You're KarmaSutra, aren't you?
There's only enough room in this place for one of me.

BackBreaker is more and more coming off as a bit weird. I like the guy and usually his posts are somewhat concise and have a point.

This isn't one of them.

Thumper, if you want to pick a scab, I'd find someone a bit less dependent on little bullsh!t green dots.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're right. I should turn off the reputation feature in my profile and use that as an excuse to be a complete d!ck to everybody, driving off the few valuable members that this site has left. That would make me cool :cool:
 

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You're right. I should turn off the reputation feature in my profile and use that as an excuse to be a complete d!ck to everybody, driving off the few valuable members that this site has left. That would make me cool :cool:
Nah.

You complain too much to be cool.

It would help make you less of a cvnt though.
 

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Nah.

You complain too much to be cool.

It would help make you less of a cvnt though.
you can be a as$h0le, but your posts crack me up!
 

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The effect is even better in person. Speaking of which, we need to get some cigars sometime.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You're right. I should turn off the reputation feature in my profile and use that as an excuse to be a complete d!ck to everybody, driving off the few valuable members that this site has left. That would make me cool :cool:

Did he hurt your feelings too? Why don't you cry about it and say you will never post again.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Epiphany: Why don't we gather up a whole bunch of men in a single forum, and choose a forum subject that deals very much with manly ways of being a man and doing manly things to women.
Manly Men [citation needed] then have lots of arguments on this forum.
Who could have seen this coming?

And no, I won't reply to any of your replies (if any) to this.
 

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scrouds said:
The effect is even better in person. Speaking of which, we need to get some cigars sometime.
Yes we do.

A good whiskey and a smoke would certainly hit the spot.
 

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Yes we do.

A good whiskey and a smoke would certainly hit the spot.

You should apologize right now. You hurt backbreakers feelings.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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