"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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is a sister n law fair game?

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So Backbreaker shares some things, and Karma comes here and makes fun... reeeeaaaaal nice, clearly you need to go back to the high school forum Karma.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HalfAddict said:
So Backbreaker shares some things, and Karma comes here and makes fun... reeeeaaaaal nice, clearly you need to go back to the high school forum Karma.

I think backbreaker takes this place a little too seriously.. lol feelings hurt? Quit posting? How about stop talking like a b!tch. He's probably going to hyphenate his name when he gets married and take his womans name.
 

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penkitten's views on this thread:
1. do not fvck your sister.
2. do not fvck your sister in law.
3. do not fvck your future sister in law.
4. it's ok to fvck your sister in law's sister if you want.
5. it's ok to fvck your brother in law's sister if you want.

someone pass the popcorn.
 

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on a similar note, my first cousin once removed is slammin hot. With
some alcohol involved I honestly could not guarantee i could hold myself
back. :yes: :eek: :nono: :D
 

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st_99 said:
on a similar note, my first cousin once removed is slammin hot. With
some alcohol involved I honestly could not guarantee i could hold myself
back. :yes: :eek: :nono: :D
how do you remove a cousin?
and are you from tennessee? if your answer is yes, i believe it is legal for you to marry your own cousin there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Enough to create fake user names to support his arguments? You're KarmaSutra, aren't you?

Yes. I am also MAcAvoy, your mom, your EX BPD that you jerk off to every night, and your ugly girlfriend.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Enough to create fake user names to support his arguments? You're KarmaSutra, aren't you?
There's only enough room in this place for one of me.

BackBreaker is more and more coming off as a bit weird. I like the guy and usually his posts are somewhat concise and have a point.

This isn't one of them.

Thumper, if you want to pick a scab, I'd find someone a bit less dependent on little bullsh!t green dots.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're right. I should turn off the reputation feature in my profile and use that as an excuse to be a complete d!ck to everybody, driving off the few valuable members that this site has left. That would make me cool :cool:
 

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You're right. I should turn off the reputation feature in my profile and use that as an excuse to be a complete d!ck to everybody, driving off the few valuable members that this site has left. That would make me cool :cool:
Nah.

You complain too much to be cool.

It would help make you less of a cvnt though.
 

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Nah.

You complain too much to be cool.

It would help make you less of a cvnt though.
you can be a as$h0le, but your posts crack me up!
 

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The effect is even better in person. Speaking of which, we need to get some cigars sometime.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You're right. I should turn off the reputation feature in my profile and use that as an excuse to be a complete d!ck to everybody, driving off the few valuable members that this site has left. That would make me cool :cool:

Did he hurt your feelings too? Why don't you cry about it and say you will never post again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Epiphany: Why don't we gather up a whole bunch of men in a single forum, and choose a forum subject that deals very much with manly ways of being a man and doing manly things to women.
Manly Men [citation needed] then have lots of arguments on this forum.
Who could have seen this coming?

And no, I won't reply to any of your replies (if any) to this.
 

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scrouds said:
The effect is even better in person. Speaking of which, we need to get some cigars sometime.
Yes we do.

A good whiskey and a smoke would certainly hit the spot.
 

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Yes we do.

A good whiskey and a smoke would certainly hit the spot.

You should apologize right now. You hurt backbreakers feelings.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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