"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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IOIs?

OlympicTim

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Whats up guys theirs this chick i want to smash that I work with.

We talk a little bit at work and never outside of work.

I think Im getting IOIs but i could be reading it wrong.

I got really blackout drunk one night and messaged her on fb asking her out on facebook. She just made fun of me for it but never said yes or no
Also she
She asked me if I had a girlfriend
Always calls me a nickname never the name I go by (Tim)
Notice her smiling when she sees me.
I hurt myself today and had to go to the hospital (need stitches) she messaged me on fb asking if I was okay.

As i typed this I realized she seems into me but the ract that I asked her out on facebook and she didnt say yes makes me think she isnt (Yes i know how beta that was i dont need to hear it i was very drunk)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blind_one

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Its a part time job I get minimum wage

If it was my career id understand. That but I can easily find a new job
I second what was already said ie:
Don't stick your d!ck into company ink or Don't sh!t where you eat

I would be more worried about getting a proper job then, rather than chasing skirt but I'll let it go this time.

Fvck you waiting for ? Get her digits, call her, suggest a time and place for you to meet up for drinks.
That way you will know.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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OlympicTim

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I second what was already said ie:
Don't stick your d!ck into company ink or Don't sh!t where you eat

I would be more worried about getting a proper job then, rather than chasing skirt but I'll let it go this time.

Fvck you waiting for ? Get her digits, call her, suggest a time and place for you to meet up for drinks.
That way you will know.
Im still 19 starting school in september for an actual career.
 

old_skoolr

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So ask her out and see what she says.

Gotta start doing it now, so you learn when your older.
 

Lozboss

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Analysis paralysis.

1. Ask her for her PHONE number. If she says no you then ghost her and ignore her in person.
2. If yes- you hit her up the next day when you know she won't be working and ask her out.
3. Yes- good. No- see step 1.
 

raider87

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Eye contact followed by a little smile is pretty much what most women do to show interest.
 
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