"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IOIs?

OlympicTim

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Whats up guys theirs this chick i want to smash that I work with.

We talk a little bit at work and never outside of work.

I think Im getting IOIs but i could be reading it wrong.

I got really blackout drunk one night and messaged her on fb asking her out on facebook. She just made fun of me for it but never said yes or no
Also she
She asked me if I had a girlfriend
Always calls me a nickname never the name I go by (Tim)
Notice her smiling when she sees me.
I hurt myself today and had to go to the hospital (need stitches) she messaged me on fb asking if I was okay.

As i typed this I realized she seems into me but the ract that I asked her out on facebook and she didnt say yes makes me think she isnt (Yes i know how beta that was i dont need to hear it i was very drunk)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blind_one

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Its a part time job I get minimum wage

If it was my career id understand. That but I can easily find a new job
I second what was already said ie:
Don't stick your d!ck into company ink or Don't sh!t where you eat

I would be more worried about getting a proper job then, rather than chasing skirt but I'll let it go this time.

Fvck you waiting for ? Get her digits, call her, suggest a time and place for you to meet up for drinks.
That way you will know.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OlympicTim

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I second what was already said ie:
Don't stick your d!ck into company ink or Don't sh!t where you eat

I would be more worried about getting a proper job then, rather than chasing skirt but I'll let it go this time.

Fvck you waiting for ? Get her digits, call her, suggest a time and place for you to meet up for drinks.
That way you will know.
Im still 19 starting school in september for an actual career.
 

old_skoolr

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So ask her out and see what she says.

Gotta start doing it now, so you learn when your older.
 

Lozboss

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Analysis paralysis.

1. Ask her for her PHONE number. If she says no you then ghost her and ignore her in person.
2. If yes- you hit her up the next day when you know she won't be working and ask her out.
3. Yes- good. No- see step 1.
 

raider87

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Eye contact followed by a little smile is pretty much what most women do to show interest.
 
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